Time Management

If you give a Woman an hour

When I was a child I loved the book If you Give a Mouse a Cookie… as I have grown older- I came up with my own version of this childhood favorite that I could relate to.  How about you, can you relate?

If you give a woman an Hour

If you give a woman an hour, she’s going to want to take a warm bath.

When she goes in the bathroom to run the water,she will see that the sink needs to be cleaned.

When she finishes cleaning the sink she will notice that she needs a new towel for her bath.

When she goes to the laundry room to get a towel she will see the loads need to be changed.

When she finishes changing the loads she folds the load of jeans from the dryer.

When the jeans are folded she will walk to her closet to put them away.

As she walks into the closet she will notice that she has shoes laying on the floor.

She starts to pick them up and remembers that she was going to donate that pair because they hurt her feet when she walks.

She will go to the garage to get a box.

While she is in the garage she will notice that the trash needs to be taken out.

After she takes the trash out to the curb she will come inside and look for an empty box.

While looking for the box she will discover a box of pictures that she has not seen in years.

She will sit and look through the pictures and start to cry.

When she starts to cry she will need a tissue.

As she goes to find the box of tissues it reminds her that she needed to find an empty box in the garage.

She returns to the garage and locates a box to take to her closet.

She will start by packing the shoes but then begin going through her drawers, shelves, and hanging clothes too.

When the box is full she will carry it to the car.

As she puts it in the car she will notice that the car needs to be cleaned

She will grab her keys.

After she drops off the box of clothes and finishes cleaning the car at the car wash she will remember that they are out of milk for dinner.

While at the grocery store grabbing milk she will decide that brownies sound good for dessert.

She will shop for the ingredients needed before checking out.

At the checkout she will run into a friend who asks her to go walking later that night.

She agrees to meet her after dinner.

She will get home to make dinner and brownies.

After eating dinner with her family and cleaning up the kitchen, she heads out to meet her friend to walk.

As they walk they talk about how tired and stressed out they both are.

When she is finished walking she realizes that she needs a shower.

Chances are if she needs a shower… she will wish she had an hour to take a bath and relax.

Can you relate???  Statistics show us that the average woman wastes AT LEAST one hour a day with distractions and disorganization… so the question is: What would you do if someone gave you an hour?

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W.A.I.T. on the Lord

I have never been a person that likes to wait. It is much more my nature to always be going, busy, and accomplishing something.

I have always been the person always scanning the grocery store lines for the one that is moving the fastest.

The person that asks at the doctor’s office how far behind they are running the moment that I check in so that I know if I have time to accomplish something meaningful in the waiting room.

I was the person that would drum my fingers and check my phone (clock) as I waited for a scheduled event to start on time.

I was that person. I think part of my struggle is my passion for managing time the best I can that leaves me feeling frustrated any time that I have to wait around on people, plans, or problems to be solved.

I have always said that I would rather someone waste my money instead of my time… money I can work to replace but time can never be regained once it is lost.

Recently, I was reading in the book of Isaiah and came across a verse that I have read many times before:

 But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. Isaiah 40:31 KJV

Somehow this time as I read it a new thought struck me… Waiting on God allows you to do more. 

I have always seen waiting as wasteful… yet God sees it as wisdom.  

This thought tumbled over and over in head recently shaking up my perspective on time in some BIG ways.  Part of me selecting the word ABIDE as my 2012 focus word has to do with the lesson that God is still teaching me about this insight.

I am know understanding that if I am racing around spending my time  MY way it is wasteful.  However, if I will wait until I have clear direction from God on how to spend my time HIS way it is wise.  I have been amazed at how much more energy, focus, and accomplishment is coming out of my days now that I am willing to:

Willingly

Awaiting

Inspired

Timing

 

I would love to hear from you… what are your thoughts on this new perspective on waiting? 

 

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End of the Year Checklist

Is anyone else having a hard time believing that another year is drawing to a close?  I feel like the older that I get the faster that time seems to go by!

A few years ago I got myself into the routine of using the week between Christmas and New Years to wrap up the old year and begin to plan ahead for the year to come.

In this time I have an unofficial checklist of sorts that I always follow.  I wanted to share that list of tasks with you today in hopes that it gives you an idea or two that you can use to end this year on a strong note and start next year on the right foot.

My end of the year checklist:

  • Writing thank you notes for Christmas gifts as well as helping my children write their own thank you notes as well.
  • Organizing all of our pictures (digital or print) from the year so that I can access them easily in the future.
  • Sitting down to write down new goals for the next year.  I divide my goals into the following categories:  Personal, Professional, Family, Fitness, Financial, and Household Projects.
  • Evaluate my current work schedule and make needed changes for the upcoming year.
  • Organize financial paperwork from the year to make tax preparation easy next month.
  • I store all of our household owner’s manuals in a 3 ring binder with each in a clear plastic sheet protector.  At the end of each year I go through to make sure that none of them need to be pulled out for something that we no longer own or use.
  • Clean and purge my closet of clothes that I am not using or wearing to donate to others.
  • Go through my address book and double check that my contacts are current.
  • Choose my focus word for the upcoming year and make a poster for my office about it.  (See old post about this)
  • Our family makes a to do list for the upcoming year, a list of things that we want to try to get done the next year.  These items can be fun places to visit, recipes to try, crafts to make, games to play, or projects that we want to work on.  It is a fun way for us to look forward to a new year together.
  • Replace kid’s school supplies that have been worn out the first half of the school year.

These are some of the things that I will be doing this week to wrap up this year and prepare for the next.  I hope that some of these will challenge and inspire you as you begin to transition this week also!

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Another Fresh Start of Sorts…

I am still here…

I know that the once regular updates on my blog have slowed for sometime until they recently stopped all together but assure you I am still here.

God has been working on me in some very interesting ways recently and it has required me to pull back to try to gain a new and clearer perspective on many of the balls that I am constantly working to keep up in the air.

As many of you know, time management is a passion of mine.  The reason is because it is my lifeline in this crazy schedule that my family and I call our lives.  We have grown accustomed to the fast pace life and learned many tricks along the way to help us.

So I have been using the last several weeks to do what I can all “Time Management Evaluation”.  I have been refining my schedule, tweaking our routines, and praying over our priorities to make sure that they all line up with God’s call for my life and for our family.  (If you have never done one… I highly suggest it but be prepared for it to ROCK your world).

The one area where I have struggled to find peace has been here within this small cyber home I have built for myself via this blog.  I have questioned it’s purpose, it’s impact, and it’s voice more times than I care to admit to you here.  I have prayed for wisdom and direction… which is why the blog has remained silent until now.

Today I felt as though God provided both wisdom and direction but also a new sense of purpose for my little corner of cyberspace.  Things are going to start to look and sound a little different around here now… (so consider yourself warned).  I wanted to give you a clear idea of what you can expect when you visit the Love’s Note Site from now on…

  • Bible based truth… no matter what it is in my life I will always come back to the word of God as the foundation for any and every stand or story.
  • Less of the “Expert” voice on Leadership, Time Management, and Faith… I will be sharing more of those “polished” thoughts on our LeadHer blog including my Monday Motivation Posts.
  • This is going to become a cozier place, where I can kick off my heels, leave my makeup off, and not be afraid to show up in sweats. I am going to be sharing with you some of my thoughts on the holiday season as I prepare to take you on a more intimate look at the journey that God has me and my family on in 2012.  I am sure that we will be covering topics like: marriage, step families, Aspergers, Parenting, Time Management, Guilt, Goals, Budgeting, and many more REAL LIFE topics that we deal with everyday in our house.

There are many things in my life, many journeys that God has led me down that I want to be more open in sharing with you in hopes that you will hear and see the voice of God in your own life through them.  You will notice some changes to the layout, links, and look of the blog as we remodel a bit to make it feel a little more homey… so bear with us.

I have no idea what the next year will be bringing for us but I know that by following along you will learn the lessons that I do and some of my personal tips and tricks for keeping a sense of humor and purpose through the chaos…

I want to thank each of you who stop by and visit regularly and tell you that I am looking forward to another fresh start of sorts with you as I share more openly and transparently what life looks like when you place your family, finances, future, and feelings in the hands of God.

I can’t promise to post everyday but I will make it a high priority to share with you at least a couple times each week.  This is my story, my journey, and I invite you to travel it with me.

Here we go….

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Find your Time Management Style

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

Psalm 139:14

There is a science to learning to manage time; often times our time management style mirrors our learning style.  Our brains are wired to work in a special and unique way so don’t fight your natural tendencies… embrace them and learn to use them to your benefit.

Think back to when you were in school, did you learn better by seeing things, hearing things, or touching things?  The answer to that question may stir up more than nostalgic thoughts… it many also hold the key to mastering the art of time management.

Visual Learner Time Management Strategies:  You learn best by seeing things and information.

  • You need to see your schedule, your plan, your to do lists, etc… each day so write them down and keep them accessible daily.
  • Color coding your calendar. You can do it by family member so you can see at a glance who is doing what by using different colored inks or highlighting the various entries.

You can also use color coding to show your different time zones that you set up.  Give each zone a different color and then when you look at your schedule you will see quickly when you can put an activity in the right time zone.

  • Using charts to track chores, projects, and activities so you can see      the steps that need to be completed.
  • Post daily routines and reminders to help hold you accountable.

Auditory Learner Time Management Strategies:  You learn and organize best by hearing things and information.

  • You thrive on hearing things so using timers to keep you accountable on time spent on a task can help you.  If you are going to clean the house set a timer for thirty minutes and see how much you can get done in that time without getting distracted.  If you are going to be preparing for a meeting for an hour set your timer for 45 minutes to warn you to find a stopping point in your preparations before moving to your next task.
  • Read your schedule out loud to yourself at the start of the day or have someone read it to you.  This will help to reinforce the schedule that you need to keep.
  • Setting alarms for when you need to do something or be somewhere throughout the day.  Set an alarm so you can always leave in time to be 10-15 minutes early to your destination.
  • Recording notes to yourself on a small digital voice recorder can save you time later looking for small hand written notes.

Kinesthetic Learner Time Management Strategies:  You do best when you tangibly touch something or do something.

  • You thrive on being able to physically cross items off of your to do list daily so a paper or wipe off boards work well for you.
  • You normally do not like to spend too much time on one task so break tasks into smaller steps and do them a little at a time.
  • Consider using task cards so that you can thumb through regular chores that need to get done.  Separate them into two piles each week; still to do and have done.
What is your time management style?  Once you recognize it – try out a few of these strategies to see if your ability to manage your time better is improved.
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Discipline Determines Distance

The 26th President of the United States, Theodore Roosevelt once said, ““With self-discipline most anything is possible.”

The question has been asked to me more times than I can count on my fingers and toes combined and each time I hear it I pause for a moment and consider the reason.  “How is that you seem to accomplish more in one day than most people do in a week?”  To me it never feels like I am accomplishing an amazing amount of activity each day… in fact I often end the day disappointed that I did not accomplish more.  I always struggle when they look at me as if they are honestly expecting an answer of some kind.

I spoke once to a group of moms on working from home and a young woman came up to me and asked this question and she stared at me as if I was about to impart some type of deep, life changing wisdom to her… I hesitation to speak because I did not want to disappoint her with my very simple and plain answer… “I am just very disciplined in my routine each day. “

“Oh.” she said with a tone of the disappointment I expected. “I am not very good at routines and staying disciplined in following them.” She said.  I spoke without really thinking when I said, “Discipline determines distance just remember that.”  I still remember the light that flashed in her eyes as she heard that.  I pray that it touched her as deeply as it did me that day. Since that conversation I have often used that phrase with others who have asked me the keys I have found to balance and productivity.

I truly believe that being disciplined is what allows me to do what I do.  It is that discipline that often propels me out of bed early to spend time with God when my body is screaming for an extra hour of sleep.  It is discipline that energizes me to stay up late making sure that all of my emails are addressed or assigned at the end of each day.  Discipline helps me to transition between tasks and not get distracted.

It then should not surprise you that one of my favorite bible verses is Proverbs 8:33 in the Message Translation “ Mark a life of discipline and live wisely; don’t squander your precious life.”  We are only given one life and one chance to leave God’s fingerprint on the world around us. If we are lazy and waste time then our impact is lessened and we are not wisely investing God’s gift to us of this day.

Motivational guru, Zig Ziglar, once said, “It was character that got us out of bed, commitment that moved us into action, and discipline that enabled us to follow through.”  When I read this quote I often think of it reference to my walk with Christ:  Character got me out of bed and into the world, Commitment moved me to act in the lives of others, and discipline enables me to follow through on his commandments and his plans for my life… not my own.

If you are struggling with the question… how can I do more or be more productive?  I suggest starting by praying for God to define your priorities, help you develop your discipline, and ask that he fills you with his energy and not your own.  When that becomes the authentic prayer of your heart… you will be amazed at what more God is able to do in you and then through you.

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Looking out for Mom

This past weekend my son had his birthday and he made a request of me that I could not turn down.  He asked that for his birthday weekend I not do any writing, working, or phone calls so that we could just relax and spend time together all weekend.  His simple request was easy to honor but left me pondering a deeper question… what does it say about me that he had to ask this of me?  Truthfully, I felt my nagging neighbor Guilt Trip trying to invite himself into my mental playground for a very unwelcome visit.

I struggled with it so much that I finally asked him about it.  As I sat down with him, I prepared myself for him telling me that I work too much, am on the phone too often, and that he feels overlooked and ignored.  I was prepared for these comments because I had convinced myself that this must be the way he was feeling for him to ask me to stop and focus on him. I felt a little like a hypocrite… I teach other women how to balance it all as a work at home mom and I was about to hear my son blow my cover and tell me I had my life so out of balance.

So hear is how the conversation played out:

Me: “Can I ask you a question?”

Him: “Sure”

Me: “Why was it so important to you that I not do anything this weekend?”

He sat quietly for a moment collecting his thoughts… (he gets that from his mom).  

(Me… nervously waiting for a response)

Him: “I wanted you to rest.  You always work so hard taking care of everyone else including me that I wanted you to just stop and enjoy a weekend without worries.”

Me: (Blown away and near tears) “Do you ever feel like I work too much or don’t spend enough time with you?”

Him: Never.  You are always there for me and I am proud of you.  Plus if I ever feel that way I will tell you.  I am just looking out for you!  

Wow. Wow.  Wow.

In case you can’t tell, I have an eight year old that is wise beyond his years!  I learned two very powerful lessons this weekend when I stepped away to honor the birthday request of my sweet son:

1.  Never assume.  When you begin to try to figure out what another person (no matter how old) is thinking you will create more trouble for yourself than just asking them in the first place.  Plus, if you have a clear understanding of their thinking and motives early— you can relax sooner.  I wish I would have asked Bryson his thoughts on Wednesday when we asked me this… not on Sunday night when the weekend was over and I had spent much of it mentally beating myself up.

2.  We all need people (no matter how old) looking out for us to make sure that every once in a while we take a step back to enjoy the fruits of our labor.

I am rested and ready to tackle an amazing week, month, fall season of ministry and I owe it to a sweet little boy that was looking out for Mom this weekend, not because he was mad but because he loved me.

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The 5 P’s of Leadership (Video)

This week in my Friday Video I share the 5 P’s of Leadership.  These are five elements that are essential for leaders to develop in order to be effective.

I hope that you will enjoy this video and pass it along to someone else who you think will benefit from it!

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You are what you do (Video)

In today’s video we discuss one of my favorite quotes and I share ten of the habits that I have in place to help me be as productive as possible.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.
Aristotle

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It’s about Time!

Do you know what the number one most unappreciated gift that God gives us is?  Time.  Every day that he allows us to wake up and breathe in and out one more day… that is a gift.  Each day that he gives us to spend with family, friends, and loved ones… that is a gift.

I once heard a quote that said, “How you spend your time is more important than how you spend your money. Money mistakes can be corrected, but time is gone forever.”  If we need more money we can work overtime, pick up extra shifts, or sell belongings. However, if we need more time we are out of luck because you cannot simply earn or add more hours in the day.

If you want to know where a person’s heart really is then look at their schedule and see how they spend and prioritize their time.

We can’t bottle time and save some on a shelf for tomorrow.  We can’t borrow time or steal it to make our days longer. No, we are each given an equal allotment of time, twenty four hours, to use or abuse.  We can chose to utilize our time to reach out into the lives of others, making a difference in the world; or we can chose to selfishly keep it to ourselves and strive to reach our own goals and agendas.

Time is the great equalizer; each day God deposits the same amount of time into the accounts of the most powerful CEO as he does for the humblest of the homeless.  Time does not play favorites; it treats everyone with unbridled equality uninfluenced by power, work, or wealth.   Time is unforgiving; you cannot go back and fix mistakes but you can learn from them.

 We get an equal time each day– but not one of us knows how many days God will grant us.

 “Show me, LORD, my life’s end 

   and the number of my days; 

   let me know how fleeting my life is. 

 You have made my days a mere handbreadth; 

   the span of my years is as nothing before you. 

Everyone is but a breath, 

   even those who seem secure.”

Psalms 39: 4-5

 Because our lives are fleeting it vital that we recognize God’s gift of time and starting living life in the light of this knowledge so that we can make the greatest impact FOR HIM.



 

 

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